Written by Kristan Serafino
SerafinoSays does not make a habit of re-posting old posts, but in honor of tomorrow’s Independence Day, we thought it would be OK to share “What I learned from the US Military” one more time…
Let me just come right out and say; Memorial Day Weekend in NYC is one of my favorite holidays. It is the one weekend a year that the United States Navy dock their ships along the Hudson River….And with the ships come all the sailors & marines…Woo-Hoo!
I spent a couple evenings this long weekend with my sweetheart at an outside cafe, where I could not help but notice how impeccable each and every military personnel was groomed as they confidently walked the sidewalks. My sweetheart engaged a few in conversation about “military guy stuff,” while I happily sat and stared. I know, I know, a little on the stalker side, but they are just all so gorgeous in those uniforms….Giggle!
I realize the military has a well enforced dress and grooming code, but it got me thinking. What if we all took pride in how we looked every single day of our lives. What if we spent the extra five minutes in the morning making certain our hair was styled to perfection? What if we took the extra two minutes to apply an extra coat of mascara to enhance our eyelashes? What if we left the house with chip-less nail polish and pushed back cuticles? What if our clothes were always ironed and styled as if we stepped out of the pages of a magazine? What if we polished our shoes so no scuffs were visible? What if our handbag wasn’t so stuffed that it weighted us down, shrugging our shoulders?
I’m not really sure what the “What if’” would be like in my fantasy world, but I do know that each and every soldier we spoke with beamed with pride as they spoke about their dress preparation, as well as being in the military. Not one seemed to have a complaint about their daily regimen and conformity to be one unit. They walked with their heads held high, with an overwhelming sense of pride.
Aside from honoring our heroes that defend the United States of America with this brief post, maybe we can better appreciate the benefit of taking pride in oneself. The benefit of confidence, pride, and honor…. Just sayin’
“True beauty isn’t about perfection. By liberating people to realize this simple fact, we help them see the real beauty within themselves.” Kristan Serafino